....if the first wife need more attention because of some problem or under certain circumstances, the second wife must consider her husband to spend more night with his first wife than her.
That is what is called by justice in polygamy.You cannot justify it as equality in material only but according to the certain need and situations.The problem now is both husband and wife do not understand this condition and their actual role in their marriages either in polygamy or not.They just intend to marry more (for the husband)only because they allowed to do so but cannot responsible for it.
When it become to justice in both of their wife, they fail to manage them wisely according to the syariah need. then their family start to become unstable which lead
to fight, argument, complain and unsatisfied between them.Most of them only know how to do it (marry more than one), but do not know to responsible toward it, and that why this kind of matter most ended with divorce or abandon their family.
.... (to be continued)
3 comments:
sejak bile ko pandai berpoligami nie...ngehehe
aku baru plan nak berpoligami
poligami ok tap taggungjawab sume kne wt bbaik
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