Power is in your hands..

Strictly to say you know someone very well either privately or as co-partners in some occasion you involve with him or her.It does not matter whether you know him or her for a long time or not even if they are your own family.Some people are just carelessly declaring 'yes i know him, you can count on me' and he only meet that person for only a week, month, or maybe 3 days.With all being said some of us really like to use all that kind reason to give someone they barely know something which is important named 'POWER'. Power is an important element in this world, and by having control of it making someone 'invisible' does not matter if its only for a while, we do not know how will the power will affect us in that period and is it good or bad.A position, leader, commander, the biggest ruler are the massive use of power in this world and they are the one who always on top in every decision which will affect us the follower.The good ones always comfort us in our own way but the bad ones comes after us in every corner, and not give any disadvantage to the 'top ones'. Trust can mostly given when people only know who are they pass it on, not just let it go to uncertainty that will make they regret it later. So, to trust the thing called power to someone then you must know that person really, really well.In order to do that there are few steps can be considered as test. Go travel with that person and spend one or two nights together.Along the journey you will find out what kind of person he or she is.you can observe that person from his daily life,how he do his things, how he spend his money and conversation between you and him will be more honest because the direct link of you and him.Any border before you and him will not occur during that time and you can talk with him freely about anything you want to know but nothing harsh. Secondly, try to give that person small authority to manage and take that opportunity to know him.There are times when you need a person to show his real behavior is by giving him some sort of power.It does show someone characteristics while he or she is at top.Is he or she will be the same person before or extremely change to something positive or negative.Not only when he is in his work but outside in his private life will change with some power in his hands.Using this method you can never make mistake about someone you will choose to accept 'power' after you or anyone else. But, is it power only come from a position you hold? not exactly and not that easy.Some come with work-hard and great sacrifice.Money, trustworthy, known, speech master, great singer, and many more can give automatic power to certain person and how they gonna use it is up to them to decide. Even with all that being said, power still important in this world and even in individual life.Someone who does not have power on himself cannot control himself from things which can bring harm to himself, or stop himself from bringing harm to others.A father who lost his power in the family would not be able to save his family from self destruction.Power is not an easy task to handle but important thing to have, have control of it and not letting it having control of our-self or we will become the slave of power forever.........