....if the first wife need more attention because of some problem or under certain circumstances, the second wife must consider her husband to spend more night with his first wife than her.
That is what is called by justice in polygamy.You cannot justify it as equality in material only but according to the certain need and situations.The problem now is both husband and wife do not understand this condition and their actual role in their marriages either in polygamy or not.They just intend to marry more (for the husband)only because they allowed to do so but cannot responsible for it.
When it become to justice in both of their wife, they fail to manage them wisely according to the syariah need. then their family start to become unstable which lead
to fight, argument, complain and unsatisfied between them.Most of them only know how to do it (marry more than one), but do not know to responsible toward it, and that why this kind of matter most ended with divorce or abandon their family.
.... (to be continued)
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Just a phrase...........
Dont make your life so hard to achieve everything,
but try make it easy to get through everything...
but try make it easy to get through everything...
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Dont piss in my pocket and tell me it is raining inside...
You guys may just see as another kind of bull**** word of wisdom i trying to use over here..
but what is exactly i trying to say is just about the liars which many of them contribute more unstable thing in our world or just take it as our daily life.
most of them just wait for us just miss or overlook about something to start their evil plan, show how much powerful they are in manipulating people, others feeling like no one can ever stop or punish them.
even they were caught before, they try to pull over our sympathy towards them to be forgiven.Just they were big fat liar before then, they are just same as today! as many i've seen, it always the same people with same attitude, how about you guys? were you guys experienced something else or what..
Even in this lovely country, they are many not only big but very fat liars wandering around thinking about what to do next to accomplish their dirty plan.Start up strategies, make sure their 'man' not affected and in good care for the time being which one of the success factor to them which we always called as 'backup'.
The only victim in this situation is us, the straight forward, innocent citizen or the society it self.They can ****up them self if only it only affect them alone,but is that the reality today?
seriously this kind of people who have the power(liars) can do such thing like that, just before us as the society know about their true colour, they have just took their a** away and say there is nothing to do with them about their evil plan.The one who suffer in this case of course its us and we have to clean their s*** after their run taking their 'fat' far away.
Maybe it is not time to catch them in hand, because our hand itself are little bit handy because of their 'matters' before so we could not helped to just wait and see what will happen next and hope for the best from them who are capable enough to stop these big liars..
Last thing to remember, just do not be a liar because you are just like the same person who do the same thing as this post's title above.Then you got your a** kicked, hahaha.........
but what is exactly i trying to say is just about the liars which many of them contribute more unstable thing in our world or just take it as our daily life.
most of them just wait for us just miss or overlook about something to start their evil plan, show how much powerful they are in manipulating people, others feeling like no one can ever stop or punish them.
even they were caught before, they try to pull over our sympathy towards them to be forgiven.Just they were big fat liar before then, they are just same as today! as many i've seen, it always the same people with same attitude, how about you guys? were you guys experienced something else or what..
Even in this lovely country, they are many not only big but very fat liars wandering around thinking about what to do next to accomplish their dirty plan.Start up strategies, make sure their 'man' not affected and in good care for the time being which one of the success factor to them which we always called as 'backup'.
The only victim in this situation is us, the straight forward, innocent citizen or the society it self.They can ****up them self if only it only affect them alone,but is that the reality today?
seriously this kind of people who have the power(liars) can do such thing like that, just before us as the society know about their true colour, they have just took their a** away and say there is nothing to do with them about their evil plan.The one who suffer in this case of course its us and we have to clean their s*** after their run taking their 'fat' far away.
Maybe it is not time to catch them in hand, because our hand itself are little bit handy because of their 'matters' before so we could not helped to just wait and see what will happen next and hope for the best from them who are capable enough to stop these big liars..
Last thing to remember, just do not be a liar because you are just like the same person who do the same thing as this post's title above.Then you got your a** kicked, hahaha.........
Thursday, March 26, 2009
UMNO election
looks like the result are just expected for them, Dato' Seri Najib Tun Razak had won the President and the women goes to Dato' Seri Shahrizat.
hope the best to those who win the election and the chosen one is the best among the rest.
still the victory for them is still too far because the upcoming small election in three different place will test their credibility to win.
hope the best to those who win the election and the chosen one is the best among the rest.
still the victory for them is still too far because the upcoming small election in three different place will test their credibility to win.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
WAAAHHHHHHHHHHH...
haha.. Manchester United 4-1 down beaten by Liverpool at their home ground whta a game is that to watch, hehe...
unlucky penalty conceded first but then, 4 straight goals come from Torres,Gerrard,Aurelio and then cool finish from dossena...
even MU still lead the table but they have lost to The Reds two times in the league fo r this season, great achievement for that win hehe...........
unlucky penalty conceded first but then, 4 straight goals come from Torres,Gerrard,Aurelio and then cool finish from dossena...
even MU still lead the table but they have lost to The Reds two times in the league fo r this season, great achievement for that win hehe...........
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Monday, February 23, 2009
Justice is not all about equality..
when we talk about justice nowadays, people always take it as equality for all matters.
actually justice is about what to do in perfect timing and action taken against certain situation which involving people and other things.
well in this matter, it is obviously about polygamy in marriage.It is not right to judge a husband who have two wives to give everything equal to both of his wives.lets have a look about this matter deeply, if his first wife wanted a car for example which need by her because she does not have it and found it very difficult to manage their children without it.then it is a must for the husband to buy two cars because just in the name of justice to both of his wives? it is wrong to define this matter like that.the first wife is qualify to have the car because she need it and does not have one while the second wife (assuming that she already own one) must respect this decision made by he husband and maybe can help him.and even if the second wife does not have a car, is she need a car to do more important matters than the first wife? she cannot justify this as injustice then because she has nothing to do with owning the car which can contribute to waste if the husband buy two cars.look at the situation clearly before decide something ...... (to be continued)
actually justice is about what to do in perfect timing and action taken against certain situation which involving people and other things.
well in this matter, it is obviously about polygamy in marriage.It is not right to judge a husband who have two wives to give everything equal to both of his wives.lets have a look about this matter deeply, if his first wife wanted a car for example which need by her because she does not have it and found it very difficult to manage their children without it.then it is a must for the husband to buy two cars because just in the name of justice to both of his wives? it is wrong to define this matter like that.the first wife is qualify to have the car because she need it and does not have one while the second wife (assuming that she already own one) must respect this decision made by he husband and maybe can help him.and even if the second wife does not have a car, is she need a car to do more important matters than the first wife? she cannot justify this as injustice then because she has nothing to do with owning the car which can contribute to waste if the husband buy two cars.look at the situation clearly before decide something ...... (to be continued)
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